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Friday, August 15, 2014

Home

I know that everyone was excited to get home and be with their families, Hayden and I certainly were.  I felt like I did not get to say a proper goodbye to several people, Susan and Lisa, Marion and Marilyn, and the Jacksons.  Good news is that we will get to see many of them soon.

There are several photos that I have not posted, mainly because I have been in the land of slow internet, getting rest, playing golf, and now because I know what I am going to do with some of them.

I am going to create a separate blog about the conditions, plans, and progress for the 46 children from the orphanage called Works of God for the Needy Children of Haiti.  I will link to it from this blog, it will be easy to view.  Because some of the pictures are quite sad, I wanted to make sure that you have a choice of viewing them.  Hopefully I can get this done soon, but I think I need a real computer, and not just this handy-dandy iPad.

Many of the team members were welcomed home with signs and hugs.  I would also like to share some of those pictures with you.  Hayden and I were welcomed home with some signs and balloons.  

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Another Travel Day

Another Travel Day

It seems like we have been traveling all over Haiti for the last few days, but today we get to travel home.  We load up on trinkets from Madam Cheap-cheap, make sure our bags way 50 lbs or less, load up the work truck and head to the airport.

The drive is not too bad, a little bit of traffic.  The nice part is we did not have to pull off the harrowing u-turn of death.  We drive by the UN outpost, see a few armored vehicles, and make our way to the airport.  Butch promised us 3 things, air conditioning, wi-fi, and a place to eat lunch.  (Note: This blogger does not blame Butch, rather reports that we were all excited for all 3 things)

We get in line for our flight, but it does not move.  At all.  We wait patiently, as we are in an air conditioned building.  Then someone from Delta shows up with a laptop to start the check-in process.  They check our passports, and send us into the check-in corral, line 2.

Once we begin moving in that line, we successfully check in, even Laura, and with boarding passes and passports in hand, we head for the security check.  Line 3.  This process is relatively smooth, unless you forget to take off your belt, oops.  Hayden and I head to line 4, immigration.  This takes a few minutes, and finally we are in the main part of the airport.  Now to find a Delta gate, but there are no Delta signs anywhere.  Donnie directs us up an escalator to what appears to be civilization.  A new terminal, with someone waiting to check our documents and send us up to the glistening food court.  Then he tells us that this area is for American Airlines, and that we would need to take the elevator back down into the abyss.

For the non-AA crowd, you get to wait in what appears to be a construction zone, the only place to get food is a little hole-in-the-wall (literally).  Good news, the waiting area is so packed that there are only a few seats, but the fun does not stop there, no AC and only a few directional fans.  The team waited patiently for their hot dogs or cheese sandwiches.  Hayden purchased a few drinks for us, and I walked around.  I found another place to grab a ham and cheese pressed sandwich.  It was actually pretty good, the bread was exceptional.

We finally figure out that this very large waiting area is the correct place for the Delta crowd, and we wait.  And wait.  And wait.  But we do get to sit down, in the warmth of the crowd, without wi-fi.  (Kind of an 0 for 3 day)

Then they announce our zone, so we get into line #5, to have our passports and boarding passes checked, then we head upstairs, to line #6.  This is when we notice our plane pulling into the gate.  So the plane will have to be unloaded, both of passengers and bags before we get on.  No problem, we will be in an air-conditioned area, right?  Nope.

Somehow line 6 turns into line 7, split men and women for the final screening and pat down, but it is not moving, remember that problem of people are still getting off of the plane? So we stand in a glass enclosed hallway, waiting to get the final once over.  Only this is hallway is hot.  I finish my bottle of water and then Hayden's.  Eventually we finish the pat down, and head down the jetway.  To line 8.  Now I feel like a bad trip to Disney World, with no fast-passes.

.... at least we are headed home.  The air conditioning on the plane is actually too cold, Katrin and Marion put on jackets, while many of us are writing our journal entries.  We pass around the last of the cards from our church and begin to watch Spiderman.

On to Atlanta.

Dana's Worst Fear

Dana's worst fear

Dear families, we are SAFELY in home, so I have been given permission to post this.  We did not want to worry anyone, since details were sketchy.

On Sunday there was a jail break in Haiti, in the area near our hotel. While at the Ryan Epps home, we were informed that there was an uprising at the jail, that thugs had overtaken the guards, and were shooting policemen.  They also told us that one of the escapees was in jail for kidnapping, so our imaginations were running wild (especially Dana's)


The good news was that we were on our way to deliver ice cream to the 46 children, in a direction away from the prison.  All of your prayers for our safety must have taken us in that direction. 

Dana told us that her worst fear was that something would happen on this trip and that she would be blamed for putting us in harms way.  Instead, nothing bad happened, we had a great trip, let's give Dana a little credit for her part in getting us together.  

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

The Breakfast Club

The Breakfast Club

As we prepare to leave Haiti, I could not help but compare our work team to the John Hughes film, The Breakfast Club.  We all came together, perhaps with different intentions, put under great duress together, and we all emerge having taken a piece of each other with us as we leave.

A brief lesson for those that have not seen the movie.  (Blogger's sidebar.  What type of parents would allow their child to prepare for college without having them see this movie? Then I realized Hayden has not seen it, so I will not specifically call out Susan and Steve Spengler.  Now back to my point)

Courtesy of IMDB (because the Internet is working)
The plot follows five students at fictional Shermer High School in the widely used John Hughes setting of Shermer, Illinois (a fictitious suburb of Chicago based on Hughes' hometown of Northbrook, Illinois), as they report for Saturday detention on March 24, 1984. While not complete strangers, the five are all from different cliques or social groups: John Bender (Judd Nelson) "The Criminal"; Claire Standish (Molly Ringwald) "The Princess"; Brian Johnson (Anthony Michael Hall) "The Brain"; Andy Clark (Emilio Estévez) "The Athlete"; and Allison Reynolds (Ally Sheedy) "The Basket Case". The school's disciplinary principal, Mr. Vernon, gives them all an assignment; they will write an essay about "who you think you are" and the violations they committed to end up in Saturday detention.

In the end, some of their more hidden character traits emerge: Claire emerges as a natural leader. Bender develops a softer attitude and becomes more friendly with everyone. Claire even kisses him and it seems the two will try a romantic relationship. Andrew becomes interested in Allison after she allows Claire to give her a makeover.

At Claire's request and the consensus of the group, Brian agrees to write the essay Mr. Vernon assigned earlier, which challenges Mr. Vernon and his preconceived judgments about all of them. While Brian accedes, instead of writing about the actual topic, he writes a very motivating letter that is in essence, the main point of the story. He signs the essay "The Breakfast Club", and leaves it on the table for Mr. Vernon to read when they leave. 

The letter read before the closing credits reads as follows:

"Dear Mr. Vernon:

We accept the fact that we had to sacrifice a whole Saturday in detention for whatever it was we did wrong, but we think you're crazy to make us write an essay telling you who we think we are. You see us as you want to see us... In the simplest terms and the most convenient definitions. But what we found out is that each one of us is a brain... ...and an athlete... ...and a basket case... ...a princess... ...and a criminal.

Does that answer your question? Sincerely yours, the Breakfast Club.

The final shot shows Bender walking near the goal post of the football field, freezing as he raises his hand triumphantly and fading to a dark frame as the credits roll.

======= here endeth the history lesson

What we found out is that there is a little bit we have shared with each other.  

But what we found out is that each one of us is a carpenter... ...and a hugger... ...and a basket case... ...a princess... ...a nurse... ...a mother ...and a painter.

Does that answer your question? Sincerely yours, the Breakfast Club.

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Where will you see Haiti?

Each evening, we have a devotion and talk about our day, this is one of my favorite times of the day, no matter how difficult or uplifting the day has been.

Each evening, Butch asks the group "Where did you see Jesus today?"  I would describe some of the things that are shared during the time, but that is not the point of this entry.

As I lay in bed in the early morning, wide awake because the local rooster likes to announce his presence with authority around 4:00, I was listening to my iPod.  What I began to notice is that every song that I was listening to brought forth some memory from this trip in Haiti, and I began wondering if this feeling will last when I am reacclimated to my normal life in North Carolina.

Here are a few examples:
Cumbersome by Seven Mary Three
"All the stones that are thrown are building up a wall"
 ----- reminded me of our effort to help move the pile of stones into the deep hole.  The stones were not quite thrown, we were told by a few members of the crew that the stone brigade would not involve throwing the stones.

Shatter Me by Lindsay Sterling with Lzzy Hale
"Somebody shine a light."  --- reminded me of Dana getting this trip together
"I'm frozen by the fear in me"  --- the fear of deciding to go on a trip like this
"Somebody make me feel alive and shatter me"  --- the feeling that I have had since being completely broken on Saturday, and how I feel now.

Broken by Seether with Amy Lee
"I wanted you to know, that I love the way you laugh" --- pick any one of the kids from the Ryan Epps home.
"I want to hold you high and steal your pain away"
"I keep your photograph"
"And I know it serves me well"
"I want to hold you high and steal your pain because I am broken"

We have been warned that the process of returning to our "normal" lives can be difficult.  Feeling guilty about how fortunate we are, or even thinking that we have not done enough.  That will be interesting, but I am wondering where I will see Haiti in my daily activities.

Ramblings and other things

Ramblings and other things:

I would love to write and individual story about each team member, this has truly been a team effort to get through this trip.  Everyone can play a role.

I have individual posts for Lisa, Mike, and Allison.  I feel that I have covered myself and Hayden, at least as much as a 17 year old boy will allow it.

So here are some bullets about the others:
Dana - all you have to do is ask her about dropping her phone in the fish pond.  

Susan (Lisa's mother) - She has been one of our lunch chefs, ask her how many PB&J sandwiches she made this week.

Laura - Pronounced "Lola" in Haitian - I haven't gotten that song out of my head all week.  Quick to share a laugh, ask her what she said to Dana after Dana's phone was rescued.

Marion - Ms. Fix-it, (also our traveling nurse).  She has been on the construction crew all week, that is her anchoring the shelves of the food pantry.

Katrin - My partner with the kids photo project, also the only one that knows French, so I am continually asking her "What is the word for ______?"  She is also a good magicians assistant.

Marylin - She has been great on this trip.  She was dancing when we visited the church construction site on Saturday, I love her perspective during our discussions.

Matt - Probably the best worker from the F10 crew.  Scratch that, we count Marion.  He is probably the best looking from the F10 crew, scratch that too, not even top 5.  I got it, he is the tallest, easily.  In all seriousness, Matt has been a pleasure to be with on this trip, I look forward to our work on the Missions Committee.

Carrie - She is one of the kindest, most tender hearted people I have ever met.  I liked her from the moment I met her, but she has had more than one "mom" moment.  Matt spills food "do not even think about putting that in your mouth."  Matt allows his hat to fly out of the truck "Matt!  I told you . . . ."  

Julie - has been given the title of Assistant Foreperson, if anything is wrong, it is her fault.  Trust me.  

Now for the pros:

Cindy:  She will humbly tell you that what I am about to say is not true, but she is an inspiration.  She has made multiple trips to Haiti, she has a deep connection with Marckeson and Roland.  Her husband, Sam, died in the earthquake in Haiti, we are going to go to the site tomorrow.  If you want to know how I got on her good side, just ask her.  Good for a laugh.

Donnie - Donnie has done a lot of work in Haiti and other places.  He has been great to have on the team to make sure what we leave behind is useful, and mostly level.  

And now for Butch:
Awesome team leader.  Cindy said that he somehow makes his work look easy, but we are sure that it is not.  He is also a rock-star here in Haiti, there appears to be some sort of shrine in his honor at the Ryan Epps home.  Bottom line, there have been several requests to do one thing, or another.  He has somehow kept us in line, on task, and meet each of the requests.

If I missed someone, I apologize, I am really tired.  

Monday, August 11, 2014

Sunday was a great day.

Sunday was a great day, and I feel like starting there.  I have already posted about Mike's no-notice sermon, so I will hit the other high points.  The service was wonderful, when our truck arrived at the community center, the children were anxiously awaiting our arrival.  The children were seated closely together, boys on the left and girls on the right.  

As we walked in I heard "Steve!  Steve!" and the boys were scooting over to make room for me on their already packed pew.  I had already decided that I would be sitting with the kids, because I had looked at Butch's previous trip on Facebook, and noticed that the kids were in the front, and the work team was in the back.  I wanted to be with the kids, mostly because I act like one in church.

We were prepared for a 3 hour long service, typical of Haiti.  I can honestly tell you that the time flew by, and I had no idea how long the entire service was.  I think Mike felt some pressure to be brief, considering the heat, and the fact that he did not actually have a fully prepared sermon to give anyway.

Yvon was passionate.  He has a booming voice, but my favorite part was the children.  The girls sang some songs with about 8 in the group.  What beautiful voices.  I tried to capture it on video, but one of the boys had managed to put my camera in manual focus mode, it may be blurry, but look for it when I can upload it in the land of fast internet.

When it was the boys turn, only 2 sang.  That seems to be a similar ratio as our kids in the US, more girls than boys.

As I wrote earlier, the Sunday services were a great healing moment for me, what an uplifting event.  After those were over, we returned to the Ryan Epps orphanage, it is a short walk up the road.  Dana was walking with Mackeson, this kid is sharp.  He said to Dana "Jerry is your Papa?" (ie husband) Dana said that that was correct.  Dana asked him if he remembered the ages of her kids and he said "11, 8, and 6." (Bloggers notice - if I remembered the ages incorrectly, blame the blogger, Mackeson got it right)

Then we got to hang out and play with the kids.  It was easily the hottest afternoon sun that we have experienced on our trip.  We ate lunch and then entertained the kids while Butch went shopping for ice-cream.  I did some magic tricks, and although I am a complete novice magician, I was able to do them and entertain the kids.  Their favorite one is the one with the Jacks.  

Then we got to hand out the ice-cream, and the toy cars for boys, and the hair ties and bows for the girls.  The girls were dolled up for church services, their hair was beautifully done, I hope I got enough pictures of them in their Sunday best.

Then we got to go to "Orphanage 46."  Butch purchased extra ice-cream and allowed us to go back, with the intention of me taking enough photographs to help tell their story, this place needs lots of help.  I got a tour of the facility, first by one of the caretakers, and then by a young boy.   I was curious how much land the orphanage owned, and the caretaker showed us the property boundary.  The answer is not much.  With Matt's help, we estimated that the 46 kids plus caretakers, stay on a property that is 90 feet by 45 feet.  That is 4050 square feet.  Stop and think about how many square feet you have for your home.

So I was busy, walking around, getting as much information as I could.  Everyone else was giving out ice-cream and hugging kids.  Hayden was getting to know one of the local Haitian's, and Mike made sure that I took a picture of Hayden with his new friend.  Then we had to leave, so we loaded ourselves into the truck and headed back to the Villa Mamika.  

On the ride back to our oasis, I was sitting with my back to the driver's cab, drawing the property layout and gathering my thoughts.  Hayden was sitting to my right, on a church pew, listening to his iPod.  He nudged me with his foot and pointed at his head.  Hatless.  So I asked, "You gave that guy your hat, didn't you?"  and he nodded.  Then he pointed to his feet, sockless too.  I cried.

When we got back to our temporary home, we had some time to just hang out and talk.  Some people wrote in their journals, some called home.  Then we had dinner and our evening devotion.  

Laura told the story about Hayden to the group, I cried again.

Sunday was a great day to be a dad.
                                                                           



I was broken

Saturday was hard.  After spending our first few days at the Ryan Epps Orphanage, we ventured out to 2 other orphanages. Comparatively, the Ryan Epps home is an oasis in this desert of filth and poverty.  What we saw while delivering beans, rice, and oil were conditions that can only be described as deplorable.

When we returned to the Villa Mamika, we ate dinner and had our devotion.  Most of the conversation was centered on getting more help to a particular orphanage that has 46 kids in its care.  While we visited, the children wanted to be held, so we did not have time to look at the conditions and take pictures of the facility.  I asked if we could return and get some pictures to help tell the story of what we saw there, and Butch told us that we had a packed schedule, so it might not be possible.  (What I heard was NO)

We had plans on Sunday to attend service, and return to the Ryan Epps Orphanage to hang out and play with the kids.  Also scheduled was a surprise, Butch was planning on buying ice-cream for all of the kids.

When we retutned to our rooms I was angry.  Angry that I could not solve the problem, angry that there was so little hope for those kids, and angry I could not do more with my time here in Haiti.

So I began writing my blog post.  Most of the words were not fit for consumption, much less broadcasting them  through our church and with our friends.  So I claimed writers block and gave it up for the night.  At that point I was broken.

Then I had an epiphany (in the early morning hours of Sunday)  What if we got ice cream for the 46 kids, took it to them so that they would be distracted long enough to me to take pictures and ask some questions about the orphanage.  I decided that I would ask Butch at breakfast, but I chickened out.

Then I thought about it, and decided to tell the idea to Dana, and have her approach Butch with the idea.  Bingo, that is exactly what happened.

I look forward to telling you about the details of Saturday and Sunday, but it can wait.  The important part is that we have seen what love can do for children by experiencing the Ryan Epps home.  We hope that we can change the lives of those other 46 children that are not as fortunate.

Today was a good day.  The anger is gone and the love of Christ has helped me mend.

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I would like to contue to say thanks to all of you that have prayed for us.  The cards that we have received are wonderful (United Methodist Women, Sister Acts, Youth Group)

Sunday, August 10, 2014

Lisa's Turn

Lisa had a blonde moment, perhaps several, but I'll only tell you about one.  Lisa wanted to commission the University of South Carolina Gamecock logo from the local metal work artists.  She had an image of the logo that she had gotten from the internet on her phone.  The problem was getting the image from her phone to the artist.  They tried taking a picture of her phone with the artist's phone, but with a cracked screen, the detail was lost.  So they tried bluetooth, airport, and other methods of getting the image from her phone to his. 

Then this conversation happened:

Haitian:  "I have internet."  (Waving his phone)

Lisa:  "...but I do not have internet."  

Haitian:  "I have internet."

Insert blonde idea icon here

Lisa:  "Oh!  I can use your phone to find the image." (Success)

Haitian:  Walking away muttering in Creole:  "Dumb blonde."

Disclaimer:  The writer of this blog has taken certain liberties.  While most of this is true, in all honesty - I have no idea what the Haitian actually said in Creole.  It could have been anything from:
"Who would want that logo anyway"
or
"Spurrier peaked with Florida"
or
"I cannot believe they hired Lou Holtz"
but it was likely the following
"the bald dude was just as dumb as the blonde."

Mike's Moment

I might as well keep on going with the Rockingham crew.  Next up is Mike's moment.  Mike Sykes is the pastor at First United Methodist Church in Rockingham.  I am sure he is diligent in his preparation for his Sunday services.  

Today was the exception.  Dressed for toaday's services at the community center, we waited for Yvon Pierre to pick us up.  When the truck arrived, I noticed that Butch and Yvon were having a quick conversation.  Butch was walking toward the truck with a devilish smile on his face, and I said "you are about to tell Mike that he is preaching today aren't you?"  

So with no preparation, Mike shared the story of Peter exiting the boat and walking on water, as long as his faith was focused on Jesus, he was successful.  He said that we too, had to exit the boat, put our faith in Jesus and allow him to guide us on this trip.

The entire service was beautiful.  I'll cover it in detail when by backlog of entries is posted.  I would tell everyone about Allison's benediction, but this is Mike's moment.

First short story - Allison

There are going to be several posts tonight, some funny stories about our work team, then a review of yesterday's events, and hopefully a review of today's events.  

First up is Allison's story.  Allison is the associate pastor at First United Methodist Church in Rockingham.  Butch is the name of our team leader and it is also the name of her husband.  Friday, Allison did not have running water in her shower, so she donned a robe, and went to ask for help from our team leader (remember Butch?) 

Allison told us that she did not want to be caught leaving his room in her husband's robe, because it was monogramed with "Butch" on the lapel.

Saturday, August 9, 2014

Out of order

Can I claim writers block for just one evening? I feel that my blogger is broken.    Matt Jackson beat me to the punch with his Facebook update, so I will take the liberty and use his words:

Today in Port au Prince and the surrounding area, our work team along with some volunteers from the community dispersed enough rice, beans, and cooking oil to sustain 241 families for roughly 3 weeks!  While we saw Jesus in the faces of the children at two other orphanages, it was hard to see their living conditions.  They craved our love and attention so much that it was hard to leave.  Pray for God's love to shine on these children.  Also, pray for our team so that we can make things better.

4:30 am - Haiti

What do you do at 4:30 in the morning when the rooster wont allow you to go back to sleep?  Upload pictures.  Today, I just did the pictures of the children, I wanted you to see their faces and their names.  This was a really fun project for Katrin and I.  There are 18 boys and 25 girls in the pictures, not all of them are residents of the orphanage.

There were several fun moments during this process.  When the girls figured out what we were doing, several of them changed clothes, brushed hair, and the older girls even did some makeup.  After each picture was taken, they wanted to view the pictures, but not just of themselves, all the pictures.  So this was not Main Street Dance on picture day by any means.

Little Marck (age 4) was my helper.  He wanted to take pictures, and even managed to get some faces in a few frames.  He took pictures of Julie, Dana, and Marylin.

Laura told us a story about a conversation that she had with Mathnai.  Laura asked her if she liked Beyonce, and the reply was "NO!"  Laura asked her if she liked Britney, and again she said "NO!"  Finally Laura asked who she did like, and Mathnai's response was "I like Jesus!"  (Sometimes this stuff writes itself)

Good Friday

Sometimes it is more difficult to find topics to write about, this is not one of those times.  On a walk back to the orphanage, Dana turned to me and said, "there is your story for today," I hope I do it justice.

As we drive to and from the orphanage, we pass several homes.  Many are made from cinder blocks, some have roofs, some are covered with tarps, and others are just exposed.  Many appear to be one room dwellings and have to be too crowded.  One of the houses is about 50 yards off of the road, and the land between the house and the road has been cultivated.  Butch tells us that he has seen the old woman in that field every day attempting to grow a garden.  On the ride to the orphanage this morning, Carrie asked Butch if we can bring her some seeds for her garden.

Mid-morning we gathered as many people as we could, our interpreter, Cladel, the seeds, and God's love and off we went.  To our dismay, the field was empty, the old-lady could not be seen.  Cladel asked around and was able to determine where the old lady lived.  He spoke to her and called us over.

As we approached, about ten in number, her family came to the doorway.  The old-lady took shelter from the sun underneath a small tree.  We saw 2 boys, a small unclothed child - perhaps 2, and a young woman holding a newborn emerge from the door.  We waved to the children and then gathered around to watch Carrie present the seeds to the old-lady.  One-by-one the packets were shown to the old-lady.  Tomatoes, peas, squash, and several other seeds were handed to her by Carrie.

We gathered in a circle to say a prayer, led by Cladel in Creole.  We joined hands, the family joined us, and Cladel blessed us with the most beautiful prayer.  He told us he prayed that the seeds would be prosperous and that the family could sell some of the food in the market and help feed many people.

After the prayer, Hayden asked me if we could donate some clothes to the family for the young, naked girl.  We have plans to deliver clothes, rice, beans, oil, and more of God's love tomorrow.

As I re-read my words I realize that I cannot capture the feeling of that moment, and that I wish that our experience could be felt by everyone supporting us on this trip.  God filled our hearts in that moment and allowed us to shed our tears in her field as we returned on a subdued walk back to the orphanage.

Projects for today:

The closet that was being built was completed.  As the last brush stroke of paint was applied, the women began to load it up.  Turns out, it is actually a pantry.  Remember the pictures of Marion and Donnie standing on a shelf?  It was a good test for the 55 lb bags of rice that they will need to support.  

There were storage closets for 3 houses planned, cut, and readied for assembly.

Now for the painting crew.  Apparently, a lack of a foreman is a good excuse to not paint.  (Sidebar - this is my story, from my perspective.  This does not represent the view of the majority of the painting crew)  We were instructed to paint another wall, but the decision of the self-appointed executive council (Cindy and I) was to avoid the afternoon heat and tackle that project first thing Monday.

So what was the painting crew's foreman doing in the morning that contributed to the lack of painting progress?  Taking pictures, lots of pictures.

One of the most difficult challenges is learning the names of the children and the workers.  They speak French/Creole, and it is difficult to understand and then remember each of their names.  Someone had the brilliant idea to take each child's picture with a card containing their name and age.  (Another sidebar, I would take credit for this idea, but there are 17 people who know it was not mine)

Katrin wrote the names and ages on the cards an I took the pictures.  Notice the art work in the background, it is painted metal made from oil drums.

The children were excited.  They would spell their names for Katrin, sometimes with a debate amongst themselves.  Then there was the ages.  If you see one that is crossed out, it was not because Katrin got it wrong, it was because it was corrected.  I guess wanting to be older is a trait shared by all children, even in Haiti.

The process of getting the card written, the child situated, the picture taken, and then reviewed can be described as herding cats.  We needed crowd control and the rest of the painting crew was nowhere to be found.  So, what were they up to?  Sorting school supplies, toy cars, hair ties, and donated fabric.  They sharpened all of the new pencils and divided the donations up for delivery on Saturday.  I am pretty sure that Lisa was holding Tracy.

Children love magic.  I borrowed a few props from my daughter, Caroline, and was ready to perform the tricks for the kids.  There are 2 card tricks that I know and they went well, performed about 10 times each.  I was happy with the result, since the rehearsal on the plan was less than magical.

The rice, beans, and oil was delivered.  The truck was packed and ready to be unloaded.  We created a fire-bucket brigade, and began to unload the truck.  We thought we were doing well, until the pros got involved.  They were THROWING the 55 lb rice bags.  At that point, most of us became useless, relegated to the cheering section.  The joy on their faces as they unloaded the truck was truly heaven sent.

Cool moment.  We got to meet Markenson and Roland, both in their 20s.  Butch explained that they have been helping with the orphanage from the beginning.  When they saw Cindy, their smiles were never-ending, hers as well.  Imagine meeting someone you love at the airport.  All of the excitement and anticipation knowing when the plane would land, culminating with the warm greeting when your eyes finally meet.  Something like that, only better.

At one point we saw Markenson walking up the street with a young girl.  He was walking her home, and carrying her 5 gallons of water because it was too heavy for her.  Chivalry is not dead.

Every day we are more blessed.  Thank you CREW and Sister Acts for your letters!  They continue to lift our spirits.

Tomorrow we will be packaging and delivering rice, beans, and oil.  We are excited!

Thursday, August 7, 2014

Day 2

This was our second work day, and several of the projects made huge advancements.  The tables were completed and painted.  One of the tables will be delivered to a family of seven.  Butch visited their home, and their current table is about to collapse.  We are excited to deliver the table to his home either Friday or Saturday.

Painting continues, and the team was able to make a lot of progress under the watchful eyes of their foreman.  I am not sure how it started, but I wound up helping the paint team get started.  Before long, Julie and Laura were calling me their foreman.  This basically meant that I was the guy fetching the paint, refilling the paint cups, and pretending like I knew what was going on.  We had several people helping us, and we made great progress in a short amount of time.  

Donnie, Marion, Mike, Carrie, and Matt made good progress on the new closet, it is going to be huge.  It is very sturdy, I have seen Donnie and Marion standing on top of the second shelf.

Matt and Carrie also repaired one of the doors to the bathrooms.
 
Lisa was able to do some work, Traci seemed content on just receiving a hug, and with Susan's help they painted the tables that were built yesterday.  

Under the watchful eye of Cindy, we were able to install new hardware for the drawers and the closets.  In the boys room, several of the boys wanted to help drive the screws, and they did a great job.

Today's random thoughts:

Dana has a habit of putting on strawberry chapstick very quickly.  I never noticed it until she told us about it at the orientation meeting.  One of the children noticed and did a motion like putting on chapstick, pretty funny.

The boys love taking pictures on Hayden's phone.  I think he said there were over 1000.

We got to visit a vendor that comes to the Villa Mamika, her name is Madam Cheap-cheap.

There are armed guards at the grocery and at the gas station, pretty unnerving.

Carrie was holding a boy named Micarrie.  Put together a language barrier, and your best Abbott and Costello routine and you get the picture of them figuring out that their names were similar.

When Dana says here name slowly, with her Southern accent, the children put an extra vowel in their pronunciation.  Di-Ana?

Dana, Allison, and Lisa all got their hair braided.  I tried to get the girls to do my hair, but they said "NO."  

and finally ..... we continue to feel your thoughts and prayers.  Keep them coming.  We appreciate the notes that we have received so far, they do help lift us up.

We do not see through the same eyes

Interesting thing about people, is that we can see the same thing, but two different people will experience the moment in completely different ways, based on experience and upbringing.

When we are in our work truck, we are exposed.  On the way to the orphanage, we look at our surroundings, duck to avoid branches, and wave at the people we pass by.  The road is crowded, and you will see all sorts of jobs being done on the side of the road.  Need a bedframe, no problem.  Tire replaced, just find the right guy.  Several people are selling sugar cane, cooked meat, water,  sodas along the side of the road.  Many of the people are friendly and smile and wave at us.  Then we pass a group of people on motorcycles, and we wave to them.  They flip us off, fly the middle finger.

This is where two different people had separate experiences. First, you have to understand that my family uses the middle finger, almost as a term of endearment.  Kind of like "hey Julie" (middle finger)  So when these guys flip us off, I thought it was funny.  I told Dana it was the locals salute to UNC.

Carrie, on the other hand did not think that it was funny.  Here we are, trying to do some good, and these guys are flipping us off.  She admitted that it affected her, to the point that she no longer wanted to smile and wave.  

On our back to the hotel, there were some guys in the back of the tap-tap that was in front of us.  They were making googly eyes at Laura.  My conclusion is this, while the vast majority of the people are warm and welcoming, there are jerks everywhere.

Wednesday, August 6, 2014

Be the light

We come to teach about Jesus, but they teach us.  This is one of my favorite quotes from our devotion this evening, it was an absolutely amazing day and each of us had a different perspective of what we saw and experienced.

Brace yourselves, this is going to be a long one.

The Dark.  This is the term for the utter chaos, filth, and odor we experience as we ride in the back of our work truck on the way to the orphanage.  I asked several of our team members if their expectations matched the reality, and many of the responses were "it is way worse."  Another theme is that the actual conditions are significantly more stark than the pictures that we were shown.  Personally, I had a hard time taking pictures of the poverty that we were seeing or taking pictures as we drove by in our truck.

The truck.  Compared to yesterday, this one is luxurious.  It has a pew bench to sit on, a tarp to protect us from the sun, and steps to help the shorter people get in the truck.  (Insert Julie joke here)  The ride to the store was harrowing for the people that have a sense of traffic laws.  For the people that drive in Haiti, it is quite normal for an oversized truck to turn into a packed roadway and make a successful left turn.  Whew, that must have been the hard part of the trip.  Nope, our driver did a U-turn in morning traffic to get to the store where we purchased ice, bread, and snacks for the day.  The rest of the trip was a straight shot, having to negotiate tap-taps (more later), motor cycles, pedestrians, and construction.

The Light.  This is the term for the love and opportunity that we are experiencing with the children of the orphanage.  You can see it immediately when walking through the school grounds, the children are happy, and cannot wait to hug and love on us.  Lisa was approached by a young girl named Traci and carried her around for the better part of the day.  Her smile was infectious.  When we got to the school, we needed to send Butch to get supplies, this was an opportunity to play with the kids.  There are several pictures of people holding the kids, it was a great moment.  Dana and Laura helped paint several girls' fingernails, Lisa continued to carry Traci, and the boys introduced themselves.  It is amazing how the language barrier does not stop us from communicating.  A smile, a handshake, and a hug go a long way here.

Projects.  We actually did some work.  Donnie was the professional plumber, he worked on several commodes, shower heads, and water faucets.  We put up 2 new rope swings, which we used for our version of Crossfit Haiti.  Once we left, the boys were playing on them, good to have Eagle Scout Matt along for his rope tying skills.  Then we got the real list from Butch.  Build 3 tables to be delivered to families, build a new storage closet, install doors in the bathrooms, and paint the exterior cement of the school house.  For simplicity, we can divide  our team into 2 groups, the painters and the builders (and Lisa, who continued to carry Traci).  Within the builders, there were the planners and the doers.  I do not want to start a family dispute, but every time I visited the table building project, Carrie had the drill and Matt supervised. However they did it, the tables were complete.  Within the painters, there were the macro painters and the steady hand painters.  (People with rollers and people with brushes)

Visiting the community center.  The community center is down the street, a short walk from the orphanage.  We went as a group, one of the rules is that you may not leave the orphanage compound without permission and ladies need a male escort at all times.  The community center is amazing.  It serves as a church, a clinic, and a sewing teaching center (Couture above the door).  The clinic is staffed 3 days a week, and girls from the orphanage were being taught how to sew.  It was amazing how attentive they were to their instructors.  The girls were very well dressed to attend classes, mostly wearing the same style dress.

Playing with the kids.  This was fun.  Lisa carried Traci, Hayden let the boys listen to his iPhone and take pictures, some of the young boys wanted to borrow my camera.  One of the boys kept stealing Matt's hat and wanted to be chased.  Laura got a lesson in Mancala, schooled in fact.  Dana played frisbee with some kids and did another round of beauty school drop-out nail polish.  There was a lot of hugging and cuddling.  I was playing 1 - 2 - 3 go, and threw some of the young boys in the air.  This was great, until some of the older, heavier, children wanted the same.  (Second round of Crossfit Haiti)  The children ask if we are married by pointing.  I had to explain that I was not married to Laura, or Katrin, or Julie.  So I showed Yola pictures on the camera to show her my wife.  She looked at 400+ pictures.  My wife was Momma, and all of the kids were baby, and I was Poppa.  Did I mention that Lisa was still carrying Traci?

Other Notes:  I really appreciate the group that we are with.  This is a mentally and physically challenging trip.

Dana has struggled with the poverty that we have seen.  I would like to remind her, that she is the reason that several of us are on this trip, I hope she can appreciate how much joy she has helped share with this corner of the world.

Our discussions during and after our evening devotion have been helpful.

Fainting in this heat is real, drink lots of water.

The threat of bugs was greatly over imagined.

A cold shower is welcomed.

A tap-tap is a truck or bus.  People pile in the back, and when you want off, you tap-tap the side and the driver pulls over.

Several Miami Heat players are painted on the sides of tap-taps.  (Chris Anderson, Shaq, but no Lebron)

and finally - mangos.  There is a tree above the dining area that drops mangos.  What you have to get used to is a loud bang (think gunshot) followed by a brief roll, and then a plop into the pool.  (No, they do not float)  Dana and Julie were nearly taken out this evening.





Day 1 set to begin.

Day 1

Roosters do not always crow at dawn. If that is inherently not true, then our local rooster is from another time zone, lost four hours west of his natural home.

There were various reports of sleep last night ranging from "like a baby" to "not at all."  Some people heard the first rooster crow at 3:30.

The meals have been excellent. Breakfast was a small buffet of bread, fruit, pancakes, and eggs cooked to order.  Well, you order eggs, and they are cooked, but you get whatever style they bring you.  The coffee drinkers love the local brew, I'll have to take their word for it.

We are sunscreened, bug sprayed, and waiting for our truck to pick us up.

I would like to thank the many members of our congregation for the candy, cards, thoughts, and prayers. You are definitely with us on this journey.

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Travel Day



Flying due South, the left side of the plane had a view of the Atlantic and the right side a view of terra firma.  We turned slightly East and lost the coast of Florida and soon headed over the Bahamas, Laura had a great view.

 Speaking of Laura, she is having an interesting trip, her name was spelled incorrectly on her ticket, just a small hazard when Garners and Gardners travel together. The result has been unnecessary scrutiny by the TSA and difficulty boarding at RDU and in Atlanta. Laura's boarding pass has been changed and printed more times than a college thesis.

The plane has what appears to be several mission trips on board. We met a group of 16 from Calvary Baptist in Charlotte. They told us they had a three hour bus ride to their destination.

We had a 4 mile ride in the back of a pick up truck.  Close proximity in the Haitian heat and one of our crew members fainted. (Name withheld to protect the blogger)

We are safely at our residence at Villa Mamika, and the rush to get on the wifi has begun.

We made it through security which is a lot like herding cats when you are traveling with 18 people. Everyone is scattering to eat, get Starbucks, or to call their families. Atlanta, here we come.

Monday, August 4, 2014

Keep Calm and Pray On

I had to work through some technical difficulties to get the slideshow working through my iPad and Photobucket, but it looks like it is going to work.  When we are able to post pictures, they will go into the folder and be shared through the slideshow at the top of the blog.  (Whew)

In the photo are the representatives from First United Methodist Church:  Top Row - Hayden Campbell, Steve Campbell, Carrie Jackson, Matt Jackson, and Pastor Anne Ahl (with us in prayer and spirit)  Middle:  Dana Vaughn and Julie Gilbert.  Bottom Row:  Marilyn Gardner, Marion Haege-Gardner, Katrin Haege-Gardner, and Laura Garner.

We were all given bracelets from the Prayer Team which represent Romans 12:12, "Be glad for all God is planning for you.  Be patient in trouble, and always be prayerful."  The short and modern version could be Keep Calm and Pray On.


Sunday, August 3, 2014

Sunday - Getting Ready to Serve

Today is a great day to serve.  It is a really simple sentence that packs so much meaning.  As we make our final preparations for our Haiti Mission Trip, we will be sent forth by our congregations and the United Methodist Church.  We will be reminded that "Jesus Christ sent out His followers into all the world to bear witness to the coming of the Kingdom of God and to serve humankind."

We have our list of tasks from our group leader, Butch.   


  • Build closet in large dining room at REHC – paint it  
  • Paint ceiling boys, girls, and Yvon’s rooms (varnish)
  •  Repair to plumbing in school – boys bathroom – girls bathroom
  • Repair fan in boys’ room (needs new bearing)
  • Rice, beans, and oil delivery
As the hours draw near, and our collective nervousness increases, stay calm and remember, TODAY is a great day to serve.

Friday, August 1, 2014

Weather Experts

I am no weather expert and I rarely watch the weather on the news.  It really only matters when they cover it on SportsCenter.  Example - Look it is raining at the Reds game, I wonder if and when that weather system will hit Baltimore.  Needless to say, this is not a very effective technique for determining what the weather will be like in Raleigh, much less Haiti.  When I want to know what the weather is going to be, I ask my wife.  She said that Bertha will be clearing out by the time we get to Haiti on Tuesday, but just to verify, I did go to the National Hurricane Center for their opinion:


Add this to the list of things to pray for, safety for all of the people that may be affected by this storm.

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

One Week to go, how are you feeling

With one week to go before our trip, I asked everyone in the group to answer a simple question: how are you feeling about the trip?

Dana:  I have been very emotional the past week. I am anxious about so many different things.....leaving my kids for 10 days, our health and safety, normal stressing of packing and getting the kids' activities all lined up before I leave. I think I am most nervous about the "unknown." God has called me to be a part of this mission team and to face the challenges and blessings that will come on this journey. I pray that God will use me to grow in my faith and live differently than ever before. I pray that I will experience joy while in Haiti and will take another step toward being the disciple God wants me to be.

Hayden: "Nonplussed."  That is all that I got from him, he is known for his rather extensive vocabulary, and he is a teenager, which means he is also known for his brevity.

Mike:  Very excited to be going - pumped!

Carrie:  With one week to go...  I am so excited for the upcoming opportunity to serve God in Haiti.  I can't wait to hold those little children and let them continue to know the love of God through us.  I'm anxious about leaving Thomas (even though I know he will be in excellent care) and nervous about the bugs (and their diseases) in Haiti.  I feel so blessed for the many prayers from friends and family during the preparation for this trip!  Haiti here we come!!! :)

Susan and Lisa:  With one week to go before leaving for Haiti, having just returned from a mission to the mountains, and preparing to move Lisa to the University of South Carolina for the beginning of her freshman year on the 16th, I can honestly say I haven't thought much about the trip except to finalize some paperwork. We are busy making sure we have everything gathered that Lisa will need for her big move. We are definitely excited about the trip and can't wait to meet everyone.

Marilyn:  With one week to go, it is obvious that God has been at work at First UMC Fuquay-Varina, preparing the way for us to be His hands and feet in Michaud, Haiti.  As the emails have been flying about pillowcases and bags for beans and rice, friends and relatives keep slipping $30 checks into my hands or leaving them on my desk at work.  I have three more checks to take to the church.  It is so exciting that together with our fellow travelers from the other churches on this mission, we will be able to deliver food for 3-4 weeks to more than 200 families!
 
My daughters, Katrin and Marion, got to my house on Sunday night, and every day since has been busy making sure we have everything in order for the trip.  The two of them will meet with Butch Huffman tomorrow for a mini-orientation, since they missed the orientation our mission team attended in Oak Island in June.  I thank God for the opportunity to share this life-changing mission trip with two of my girls.  Although we have shared some deep, bonding experiences before, we have never done anything quite like this together.  I pray that we can be a blessing to each other, our team members, and most especially, to the people we meet in Haiti.
 
Going to visit the Ryan Epps Home and the area where God has worked through Helen Little and others to help Haiti "one child at a time" has been a dream for me since the first time I heard Helen speak about the work being done in this special part of the world.  May God use all of us to make a difference in the short time we are there.
 
.. and this was from a similar conversation on Facebook:

Me:  Not freaking out, but I have several things on my to-do list.  I also have this odd calmness about this trip, maybe even feeling guided.  I was nervous about deciding to go, but once I did that, I feel all-in.

Matt:  If I was going by myself, I'd be freaked out.  I'm going with a great group and we're all going with a blessed mission I feel.

Pick up the phone, it's ringing.

What do you do when the phone rings? At my house, you check the caller-ID and determine if you want to answer or not. I hear a lot of stories about how people feel that they have been "called upon" to do something for the church, but I had not experienced such a feeling. When the symbolic phone rang, it was a call for volunteers to explore the possibility of putting a mission team together at our church. I have to be honest, I checked the caller-ID and decided to not answer, it was Haiti calling and all that I knew about Haiti was that it was hot, and I am not a big fan of the heat.

I do not know why, but I answered the phone and decided to go to the first meeting. Curiosity was certainly a factor, but it was probably more to find an opportunity for my son to experience what many people have described as a life changing trip.

Butch Huffman explained what it would be like to go on a mission trip to the Ryan Epps Home for Children  and told us that he had an opening the first week in August. (My first thought was, August? Really?) At the end of the meeting, we talked about who was interested in going, at this point I was all-in.


My point to this entry is to remind people that there are a multitude of opportunities to volunteer or to represent the church in some way, but you do have to answer the phone when it rings.

Saturday, June 7, 2014

Why F10 and Friends?

As we were going through our orientation meeting, we were discussing the fact that most of us attend First United Methodist Church in Fuquay-Varina.  In fact, there are 10 of us going on this trip (F10).  It is also interesting to note that most of the people attend a church with First in the name.

Orientation

Meet our mission team:  Steve Campbell, Mike Sykes, Julie Gilbert, Butch Huffman (Team Leader), Cindy Dixon, Carrie and Matt Jackson, Marilyn Gardner, Dana Vaughn, Hayden Campbell,  and Laura Garner.  Not pictured: Susan Spengler, Lisa Spengler, Allison Farrah, Mary Catherine Coltrane, Kat Haege, and Donnie Brafford.